Wish

Last night Zahra and I did some adulting.  On the surface, it was a rather boring errand.  We needed to buy a new washing machine.  No doing a bunch of research and no finding the best deal on the internet from our phones.  Just old school going to the store and figuring out what we want and buying it.

I usually refer to these errands as dates.  It's grocery or Costco or something else mundane, but we get to be together.  I find this fun.  This is dating now and I love it.

As I think about it, on most of our errands someone usually has to do stuff.  It's almost always Zahra with a list and getting the stuff our family needs.  Usually, I'm just following and not helping all that much.  Sometimes going slower on purpose so I can make it a few minutes longer:)

This was different though.  There wasn't much to do here.  We saw the few options and walked maybe 100 feet total.  The salesperson was doing his salesperson thing and we were just hanging out.  It was wonderful.  In the middle, the salesperson asked how long we'd been together and commented he was a few years behind and hoped it would be as fun for him.  

As we left, we each said thank you and good night and he said, "Thank you for entreating me."

He recognized something in the just one hour or so.  I'm sure in his job he sees lots of couples doing the boring thing we were doing.  He saw that we made it fun.  I even talked with Zahra about how nice that was on the way home.

I wish that for Yusuf and Nooriya.  I want them to find a partner they can have fun with years later.  I have the ability to help them find that person and help in other ways too.

Also, I have a lesser influence but a similar ability with so many young people while doing this TNC khidmat.  It's taken years to figure out how to give back, but it's finally clear.  Do this khidmat.  It's frustrating at times, but it has the potential to grant someone their wish.

Taher, spend the time.  You have the ability.