Today a young woman was courageous enough to say hi to me when I was taking a break in the kitchen having a snack. She introduced herself and I invited her to sit and join me. She commented on how cool my topi was and asked if I was muslim. She also shared that she usually wears her hijab and that she didn't see anyone like her at work. This made me sad. Then she asked me if I felt comfortable wearing my topi here and about my journey. I'm not shy about it, but I usually don't share. Mostly, I don't think people care that much. But she asked. I was happy to share and I told her that I did feel comfortable and my experience at Zurich is that people respect me.
It may have just been my topi or it may have been something more. Something made this young woman ask me about my journey and considered what I said on her own. She later emailed me thanking me for the advice. I shared, but didn't give any:) I think and hope that she felt a little more seen today.
Taher, be yourself. Be visible and put yourself out there. Sometimes that's all it takes for someone else to feel seen.
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